Join us this week as we discussion reconciliation with others. Our anchor passage is Matthew 5:23-24. MESSAGE NOTES: Q: When it comes to conflict and reconciling, what’s true of you? “I’m usually ready to get after it, have the hard convo, and make things right!” OR “I’m ready to run from the conflict! Can’t stand it!” Why? Explain. Q: When have you suddenly realized that someone was rather displeased or otherwise ticked toward you? How did you feel when you discovered or remembered it? Read Matthew 5:23-24. Q: What do you find extra-intriguing about this scenario presented by Jesus? Q: What do you think Jesus was driving at, his main point? What’s good dialog, solid reconciling, sound like? “I’m sorry for . . . truly sorry!” "Please forgive me for . . ." "When you . . . I felt . . .” “I may be mistaken because I . . .” “I forgive you. I really do!” Q: Which of the above have been part of good reconciling you’ve experienced in the past? What happened? Q: Which of the above might prove helpful for you in a current scenario? What will it take for you to say such things? What’s it take to make reconciliation seriously work? Serious humility like Jesus details earlier in Matthew 5. Serious surrender to Christ’s wisdom and ways. Serious passion for healthy relationships. Serious determination to actively grow as Jesus’ disciples, to let him change us. Serious commitment to forgiveness, like Christ has forgiven us. Q: Which of the above need incorporated into your current relationships? Why? What steps will you take? Read Ephesians 4:31-32. Q: How does Christ serve as our role model and motivate us toward healthy reconciling? Get Ready for Next Week Read Matthew 5 each day. Focus with special meditation and reflection on vs. 25-26.